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Peter 3:13-22
Focus:
Sharing our Faith
Function:
To help people approach evangelism in a post-Christian culture.
Form:
Storytelling
Intro:
On the first Sunday of
this month I mentioned how Tony Compolo preached against legalism by
exposing how the Christian prohibition of going to movies didn't
serve the purpose of sharing our faith to outsiders.
I remember how this was
played out in a odd way in my ministry. In the late 1990's TBN
produced a move called “China Cry.” It was the story of a woman
in China whose job was to indoctrinate young minds to communist
ideology.
While doing a
background check on her, the thought police discovered that she
attended a Christian mission school when she was a child.
While at school, she
placed her trust in Jesus. And then forgot about it.
However, the officials
wanted her to recant her profession. In the process of her making up
her mind about it, she realized that she was indeed a Christian and
she refused to deny Jesus.
The colonel in charge
of the Secret Police had her arrested and eventually she faced a
firing squad.
True story, BTW.
The colonel said “what
God can deliver you out of my hands?”
At the moment that the
men fired their rifles to kill her, an electrical discharge happened
which disoriented all the executioners and every single bullet missed
her.
A great story.
So, a Sunday School
class decided to go en masse to the movie. However, one of my
parishioners would not go because she was afraid that if someone saw
her enter the theater Saturday night, and then show up for Church on
Sunday, her “Christian witness” would be blown.
We heard that a lot
growing up. God's only plan for sharing the good news of His love is
through the Church, us. Wherever we go, we are the visible
representation of Jesus to the world. And I was constantly challenged
with remembering what I displayed to the world as a Christian.
So, Christians, don't
“Blow your witness!”
And there was/is
several ways that was described. All of which were great sermon
fodder: dress, alcohol, tobacco, language, movies, acquaintances,
hair cuts, music and etc.
What this parishioner
probably failed to realize is that a non-Christian, and most
Christians would have never thought anything was wrong with that
behavior.
She lived as a
Christian and that is good. But she was so caught up in Christian
sub-culture that her concept of non-Christian life was disconnected
from modern culture.
I am not saying that is
bad, but it is important to live
in the world that Jesus has called us to be His agents to redeem.
If she were to judge
non-Christians for going to a movie, how can she open a door to them
to share the hope she has inside of her?
So, I remember a
similar incident happening to me when I was a child. I was sure that
my family had completely blown our witness.
I grew up on the South
Side of FW and attended school with all the traditional, or orthodox,
Jewish children whose families lived within a Sabbath Day's walk of
the Synagogue off of Old Mill road near Foster Park.
Converting them to
Christ was part of our mission statement.
And I was friend with
Rabbi Gebhardt's daughter.
And to explain this
story, one must remind people younger than me that beer used to come
in these little squat brown bottles that didn't look anything like
soda bottles.
And as an advertising
gimmick, a root beer company decided to package their root beer in
bottles that looked like beer bottles.
I was 13 and I was in
the checkout line with my father at the Kroger store in Southgate
shopping center.
And my dad, a preacher
and on staff at FWBC bought a six-pack of that root beer.
In the line next to us
was Rabbi Gebhardt and his daughter.
I remember the panic I
felt because I was sure that she would see the root beer, think it
was beer, and then think that we were not Christians at all, I would
lose my chance to witness Christ to her, she would die and go to hell
and it would be all my (or my dad's) fault.
I worried about how I
would face God at that moment.
I had no idea what the
Jewish religion was all about until later that same school year when
I was invited to her bat-mitzvah and they served wine like it was
kool-aid.
The point of both of
these illustrations is that we do not really know what ideals,
ideologies, practices and traditions make up the spiritual and social
values of our neighbors.
And, as we increasingly
become a less Christian culture, we cannot assume that people know
what we think proper Christian behavior actually is.
We cannot assume that
people know about all the ways we have sought to define our faith.
People on the
outside will judge our sincerity by what they perceive the teachings
of Jesus to be.
Let me repeat that.
People will judge the sincerity of our faith, our religion, by
how they understand the teachings of Jesus.
I think this can be a
very good thing because it is causing us to re-focus on Jesus' love
for humanity instead of our own religious practices which might have
devolved into Christian legalism.
So know, when I remind
myself that I am Christ's representative to a hurting world, or to
use the old term, when I concern myself with my witness, instead of
legalistic principles, I concern myself with how well I show Jesus'
love.
Do I respect people who
are different from me? Am I kind to the clerk at the grocery store?
How do come across when negotiating the price of my car, or
contractor services to my house?
So let me repeat verse
15, as we are looking at the Gentle Shepherd: “...Always
be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the
reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and
respect...”
This passage is about
our Christian testimony, our Christian witness.
And it springs first
from doing good.
You know how dads
always have the same joke that they repeat over and over and the kids
get a little tired of it?
My dad would say: “I
am a preacher, so I am paid to be good. And you are not a preacher,
so that means you are good for nothing.”
But there is a
difference between being good and doing good.
Good people do good
things.
But doing good is a big
part of our witness.
Ephesians 2:8-9
reminds us that we are saved by grace through faith and not by our
works. But then verse 10 tells us that we were saved to do good
works.
And I keep pointing
out, Christians, we are not saved as a fire escape from hell so that
we can live for ourselves here in this life and go to heaven anyway.
But we are saved to do good things for God toward others.
We are saved to take
part in God's great adventure of restoring the world to wholeness and
healing through the good news.
I like this perspective
on evangelism. It reminds me of St. Francis of Assisi. He said,
“preach the gospel always, sometimes use words.”
Our lives preach the
good news that God is still in the world. Our lives demonstrate God
still loves people.
The whole passage tells
us how to preach with our lives.
Verse 15 tells us how
to share with our mouths.
Always be ready to give
an account of the hope that is within you.
It springs from faith.
It springs from our faith. And it springs from the way our faith
brings us hope.
I bought a Christmas
tree from the Optimist club one year. It was a great tree and a good
value.
And the volunteer
selling it to me said to me: “next year is going to be a bad year,
I am going to die next year.”
I switched into
preacher mode right away and gave him some time to talk about his
problem, but before I got there, I was tempted to chuckle at the
irony that the optimist was so gloomy. As it turned out, he wasn't
gloomy, he was realistic about his health and had a very positive
attitude about dying.
Always be ready to give
an account of the hope...
Do we have hope? Do we
show hope?
But most importantly in
this passage, how do we communicate it with words?
This is an important
aspect as we are sharing hope with a post-christian world.
Always be ready to
share... ...with gentleness and respect.
The operating principle
is “...with gentleness and respect.”
I wonder if that is
where our message breaks down?
I am convinced that the
reason the message is so readily embraced on our Kairos weekend is
because of the respect shown to the inmates at the prison.
We always refer to them
as resident. We do not allow the use of their prison slang name, and
we rise above the correctional officers use of a number instead of a
name when referring to the residents.
England is much more a
post-christian nation. And an evangelist that I was talking with who
was from there explained to me the subtle shift in the “gentleness
and respect” concept.
He said, “In Seminary
I was taught to teach the doctrines that we believe and there was
always an implication afterward to question the person this way: `why
don't you believe what I am teaching?`
“Don't hear me wrong.
It wasn't supposed to be a teaching tactic that placed the person on
the defensive with the implication `what is wrong with you that you
don't understand what is so clear to me?'
“The gist of the
question was designed to ask the person what I could to to help them
see the light the way that I saw it.”
But my friend, Johnnie
March, said “Now I ask the question this way: `this is what I
believe, what do you believe?'”
And he was telling me
that it is a subtle difference between what happens when Christianity
is no longer the dominant religion in a culture.
We haven't gone as far
as most European nations, yet. But the concepts of gently sharing our
hope in a pluralistic culture apply to us.
My friend who didn't
want to go to a movie assumed that everyone in our culture knew of a
religious prohibition of which only a subset of Christianity knew.
Tell the story of Cat.
Cat, short for Cathy, a
waitress at the diner I attended was scared of me.
She was young, but her
face showed the lines of a hard life.
I was sharing with
another waitress about my reaction to the movie “The Passion of the
Christ.”
I was so moved that I
was in tears.
And Cat overheard us.
And started inching closer to the conversation.
First, while passing by
the counter, she said: “my uncle was a preacher” and then she
just sort of ran off.
Then, she got a little
closer with the statement: “my grandfather was a preacher as well.”
But again she ran off.
She reminded me of a puppy slowly coming closer and closer to see if
I was safe.
I got the chance to ask
her about her grandfather, she told me a little and when she
discovered that I was not going to attack her, or preach at her she
told me the rest of her story.
She was heavily
involved in church until at 16 she got pregnant. She was kicked out
of her church because they didn't want that kind of girl with their
youth.
At this point, Cat was
starting to weep.
I looked her squarely
in the eyes and said to her: “on behalf of that church, on behalf
of preachers everywhere, I apologize for the wrong done to you.”
She broke into tears
and that moment started the slow salvation of Cat.
With gentleness and
respect is the operating word. We have to be humble and admit our
mistakes.
I love the way the
Lutheran Church has recently apologized for the anti-Semitic language
that Martin Luther.
If we are going to
share the hope inside of us, then instead of being upset about the
changing of our culture, the loss of genuine Christian values, we
need to remember that this is our Father's world and regardless, the
good news is entrusted to us.