Focus:
Peace
through forgiveness
Function:
To
help people be less judgmental
Form:
GOK
Intro:
In Matthew
20, there is a parable about land owner who hired people to work
at different intervals along the day. He told the first group that he
would give them a day's wage.
At
the end of the day, those who were hired and worked only one hour
received a day's wage while those who bore the heat and brunt of the
day's work received the same wage.
They
complained against the generosity of the master, but they all got at
least that for which they agreed to work.
I
buried a dear old saint once, her name was Margaret. Her mother was
from “the trailer court” and like her daughter, she spent many
regrettable years away from the community of the Church.
Both
women gave in to pressure from their unbelieving husbands and
regretted it.
At
her funeral, the story of God's grace just kept coming back up, again
and again, how both women had found their way back into the fold.
Upstairs
in worship during the funeral, tears of joy flowed. But downstairs,
gossip was happening and one person was offended that the women got
to get away with sinning for years and they got the same reward as
her.
Why,
I wonder, do people resent grace?
Now,
the lady who said those awful things was indeed a dear old saint and
a wonderful Christian woman. But she, like me, was far from perfect
and I thought about how we so readily tolerate gossip, a sin that
perpetrates harm, and therefore, evil.
We,
as a body politic in Christianity have certainly forgiven and excused
the sin of gossip for years and again, gossip harms people.
And
we hold other sins, what I am going to call “non-evil” and for
the sake of this discussion, “sins” because we are dealing with
commands based on principles from God's commitment to justice, love
and mercy, but we hold these other things, things that are not evil
in nature, like what happens in bedrooms, private business that has
nothing to do with faith in the death and resurrection of Jesus and
its corresponding change, by the Holy Spirit to become people who all
of a sudden confess their brokenness and start living for the good of
others.
Wow.
The
passage says, “forgive sins and they will be forgiven.”
There
really are no qualifiers on this as to which sins are to be forgiven
and which ones are not except John mentions only one, the blasphemy
of the Holy Spirit.
I
wish I could go back in time, be two places at once, and go into that
basement and say “Forgive her, you have been forgiven. Don't you
see?”
Sinning
is committing acts of evil that break community with God and others.
This
person left the church.
It
hurts when people leave.
It
wasn't a secret that she left the church to keep peace at home.
She
was indeed broken and when she returned, she was more broken. We were
pleased to be the place to help her find restoration and forgiveness.
The
first promise of our passage is peace.
I
imagine the fear that they are hiding for their lives an suddenly a
ghost appears in their midst.
Scary
stuff.
But
maybe Jesus' offer of peace is more than that.
This
is a powerful peace that transforms the way they will live from then
on.
This
is His big appearance to the 12.
This
is the moment they are now hoping for since Mary, Peter and John
have seen Him.
He
gives them peace and (point toward floor dramatically)
the very first thing he tells them is to forgive others without
condition.
And,
He gives them the actual power to do it.
Do
it. Forgive. You have the power.
Sadly,
the Church may
have made a distinction about sin that just doesn't seem right to me.
It
may have picked and chosen the sins that it will accept and forgive
and the ones that it will not accept and forgive in order to maintain
its own sense of being.
But
simply maintaining our sense of being can begin to separate us from
what Christ is doing in the world today.
As
the Hymn says, “The Darkness will turn to the dawning...”
One
of the first OT commands the Lord revoked was the separation between
Jews and Gentiles, non-Jews.
And
that began the process of breaking down barriers to everyone.
Sin
is committing acts of evil that harm others.
Brokenness
may be referred to by some as sin, but it is different. It is things
like the exaggeration to the point of lying that a person may say
about themselves in order to make a good impression.
It
may be the unfulfilled psychological need that drives a person to
deviant behavior, or prevent them from forming some healthy
relationships.
Broken
people are forgiven people who have found Jesus the Savior.
And
He says one thing here, Forgive others.
The
Church is for broken people. I am not going to judge what is
brokenness for you, I am responsible for me.
It
seems easier to forgive broken people who make mistakes born out of
their brokenness. I understood the woman felt she needed to leave
church to keep her husband happy.
I
celebrate the kind of mercy that forgives her and I think that is
what God means when God says “Love Mercy.”
I
have wondered at times if the Church has elevated some of these
“non-evil” sins in order to misdirect themselves from their own
lack of obedience when it comes to extending mercy toward people with
whom we do not agree.
I
heard the N word in my home a few times. But we were told we were
great Christians because we did not drink any alcohol, play with
cards or ever go to movies.
And
we were Christians. I met Jesus in that home. I was raised to love
and trust Jesus in that home even though there was sin in that home
and it was sin that at the time, the church was okay with.
That
church, like this one and every other one, was made up of people who
are broken and not yet perfect. They, indeed, We, are people who
believe in Jesus as the Savior.
But
sometimes, broken people make up rules to justify themselves and in
the process, all of a sudden forget Jesus. And God loves us and
brings us back.
Like,
as I mentioned, justifying racism with tea-totaling.
That
kind of judgment is exactly what Jesus was talking about when He
condemned the lawgivers for making up human rules about sin that went
way out of bounds about God's concerns.
Broken
people sometimes make mistakes and need forgiveness.
So,
there is one choice, stand forgiving.
But
what about evil?
Well,
...even though racism is one of the biggest evils we have yet to over
come in our society, we are gradually making progress. I have to
forgive the one who used the N word, I need to, he is my father.
And
God looks at everyone as family.
BOKO
Harem has turned kidnapped Chibok girls into suicide bombers. They
are our girls, can we not forgive them? Are they willing? Do they
suffer from Stockholm syndrome where a cognitive dissonance compels
them to empathize with, and then join their captors?
We
have been given a powerful peace from Christ by our own forgiveness.
I
conclude the message with this thought, we have been forgiven,
forgive others.
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