Focus:
Family Celebration
Function:
To Help People see the family
nature of Church
Form:
3 points
Intro:
Today we are celebrating family. You are all invited to stay for a
potluck and a program afterwards.
And
I love the theme on the cover of the Bulletin: “You are all
children of God.”
I
confess, emphasizing that part of the passage, “you are ALL
children of God” changes my perspective on the passage.
It
seems like the times that I have studied this passage before, I have
come to emphasize the line: “because of Faith...” you are all
Children of God.
I
have emphasized the part that in order to be children of God, we must
have faith.
And
faith is important. It is the difference. Faith is trust in God. Rest
in God. Faith in
God is born out of relationship with
God.
I
believe that a formal relationship with God is an important part of
our faith journey.
But
the emphasis of the passage is not that you must have faith, you must
trust God, but that everyone who does is part of the family.
He
makes sure we know what the family of God consists of. And it is a
breaking down of barriers between ancient divisions.
For
the Jews, it meant that their racial heritage did not make them any
more special. The same applies for us.
Two
of the other major dividing factions of the time are also shown to be
irrelevant in the family of God. The first is the distinction between
the classes of people who are free and who are slaves, remember, in
Rome 2/3 of the population were slaves, it was a slave economy. And
the section distinction is between the genders.
This
Church, this faith, this family, cuts through ancient divisions
between people to bring us all into the same place,
Children of God.
We
are all part of the family and the family realizes that every part is
just as important.
There
is an emphasis here that I remind myself to remember, “Because of
our faith, everyone is important.”
It
is like he is saying, “now that you have faith, see the value in
every single person.”
And,
I see the importance of the family analogy in the way we value
others.
Look
at 1 Timothy 5:1-2: 1Do
not speak harshly to an older man, but speak to him as to a father,
to younger men as brothers, 2to
older women as mothers, to younger women as sisters—with absolute
purity.
I
think there is an assumption here. And that is this, when dealing
with family, we do not have the luxury of merely winning an argument,
but with family, we have burden of working it out.
Now
I know we live in a broken world and this is idealistic in nature.
And I know that at best effort, sometimes it is not possible to work
things out, or safety and other issues get in the way, but the idea
is still the same, we talk in such a way as to not win an argument,
but to work it out because we have to.
That
commitment to family means that we value and respect the people here
so much that we will work it out with them.
The
love inherent in the family of God is designed to be unconditional.
That does not mean that we do not have conflict, but it means that we
live through it for the purpose of community.
God’s
love is unconditional, so is ours.
Family
love is also deliberate.
In
my morning devotions both yesterday and today, I was reading the
feeding of 5,000 Jewish people in the desert and the feeding of 4,000
Canaanite people in another desert by Jesus.
I
am reading it in the Gospel of Mark, but in both Mark and Matthew,
the author points out both miracles and then has a section where
Jesus chides the disciples for their lack of faith later when the
food supplies are running low.
I
have always read those miracles as miracles that prove that if we,
like the little boy, give our loaves and fishes, a small portion,
then God will take what we have, and by the power of the Holy Spirit
multiply it into miraculous force and great things could happen.
It
was always a lesson in faith about giving our little bit to God and
then God would multiply it.
It
depended on a visible sign. But I wonder now more and more if the
actual miracle was the miracle of sharing.
First,
the boy offering his gifts as a metaphor for his talents is not
present in the second account.
The
emphasis in either point is not on the boy who gave, but on Jesus who
made it adequate.
But
the miracle of sharing, the miracle of community, the miracle of
trusting God for the moment by giving what we have now to those in
need with the trust that God will provide in the future seems to make
more sense today to me.
But
more than that, the disciples reaction to the need of the crowd and
the problem with feeding the crowd
is telling.
The
crowd is hungry and Jesus tells the disciples to feed them.
Their
answer is that the task is enormous. “A year’s wages would be
needed to buy that much food,” they say.
The
task is enormous.
They
are being commanded to care for others.
Actually
caring for others takes the willingness to sacrifice time and effort
for them.
I
hope it was the miracle of sharing because the value of stopping,
caring and nurturing others is what it means to be a part of the
family of God.
In
First Corinthians 12, we get another look at this family called the
church as it relates to the fact that it is also an individual body.
When
one part of the body hurts or is sick, the entire body is in distress
and is distracted.
When
one part of the body does not do its job, or cannot do its job, the
whole body, again, is affected and at times, it can even die.
Every
part of the family is important and needs to be cared for and
nurtured.
And
again, it takes time and effort.
Actually,
I am becoming more aware that it takes a lot of time and effort.
I
remember taking biology in college and the professor was working out
the ratio of sunlight to the growth of a plant and less than .01% of
the sunlight
is actually absorbed and used for growth.
And
then I look at the corn as it gets tall (Lord, give us more
rain), and I realize that all
that sun energy is used to produce this big plant and out of that
plant, we just use a part of a part of a part. The carbohydrates
inside the husk of the kernel provides energy for our bodies. It is
less than .01% of the plant.
So,
the energy from the sun is reduced from an hundredth percent to a
thousandth percent and then it gets consumed by the body and only a
small percentage of that is actually used by us.
I
remember thinking that God designed an incredibly inefficient system.
And
then I thought of the thousands of years that humanity spent most of
its effort just making sure that this process happened year after
year and I realized something.
The
culture does not live that way anymore. We don’t walk past our
neighbors house on the way to the local village where we know and
grew up with everyone anymore.
This
ancient system of a yearly cycle of a lot of effort to survive
brought the community together to a place where they depended on each
other.
God
designed the world
for us to stop, take the time to nurture and care for each other. I
see the importance and value of community. I see the beauty and value
of the Church that, according to our scripture this morning is
intentional about including outsiders.
I
see that God designed the family, both the nuclear family and the
Church family to be this place where people take the time to stop,
care for and nurture one another.
I
believe that we have to be intentional about maintaining our sense of
family and interdependence since we live in a fast paced society and
continue to build a place where we can all nurture and be nurtured.