Text:
Colossians
3:12-17
Focus:
Holiness
Function:
to help folks learn to
forgive
12 Therefore,
as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with
compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience. 13 Bear
with one another and, if anyone has a complaint against another,
forgive each other; just as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also
must forgive. 14 Above all, clothe yourselves with
love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. 15 And
let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were
called in one body. And be thankful. 16 Let the word
of Christ dwell in you richly; teach and admonish one another in all
wisdom; and with gratitude in your hearts sing psalms, hymns, and
spiritual songs to God. 17 And whatever you do, in
word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving
thanks to God the Father through him.
Good
morning beloved! Don’t you just love that word from today’s text?
We are
the beloved of God, and God holds all of creation lovingly in their
hand. (hold out hand) Holding us… Loving us… keeping us
close to God’s own self through the relationship we have with him
through the Spirit of Christ living inside of us.
At
times, I describe a Christian as a person who listens to and for the
Holy Spirit leading them to love each other.
That may
seem like a difficult and mysterious task since we have no control
over the Spirit and their moving in our own spirits.
As Jody
said last week, one of the ways to listen to the Spirit of God is to
pay attention and look out for their presence and affect.
This
passage kind of gives us some key points to living the Spirit filled
life, or walking in the Spirit.
First
off, instead of being worldly and using, pride, arrogance and
blustering, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility,
meekness and patience.
I find
that looking for the presence of Christ in another person helps me to
clothe myself with these virtues and then hopefully reflect the love
and peace of Christ back to the world around me.
He
explains patience a little bit when he says that we should bear with
each other. People are not perfect and they may mis-speak or offend
another without intentionally trying to be mean.
People
are not perfect and they may be going through some hard and difficult
times of stress and they may react in ways that do not reflect the
love of Christ. Love them anyway. Be patient with them and remember
that we too have bad days and are not perfect.
I find
it this way, “In other words, don’t be quick to be offended.”
I
Corinthians 13, that great chapter on love says that love
for others believes the best about them, not the worse. Practice
believing the best about people because most people really do want to
be good and caring people inside. Give them a break.
In
conversations with my Uber passengers, I love trying to find that
spark of Christ in them and bring it out.
Then, as
he explains patience, he goes into the most important point to
walking in God’s Spirit: Forgive each other.
As I
mentioned, we make allowances for each other when they get off track
and we do that by forgiving them.
He says,
as Christ has forgiven you, forgive others.
And that
forgiveness is without condition.
That is
hard for us.
Real
harm has come to some of us by the hands of other people. We have
abandonment, abuse, neglect, selfishness and all those other sins
that keep us from loving others to contend with in our lives and in
the lives of the ones who may have hurt us.
Forgive
anyway. God has forgiven us without shame or judgment because God is
Love and embodies love to the world. Jesus, the Christ, came to show
us how to love and forgive each other.
I love
the fac that Jesus was criticized by the religious folks for
associating with people that they called sinners. Jesus hung out with
them and that means a lot.
He
showed them that he loved them by welcoming them into his presence.
He broke down the barriers between bitter rivals and enemies when he
showed compassion to the woman at the well and the whole village
became followers of the way.
In John
20:23, Jesus gives us the spiritual authority to either forgive
or withhold forgiveness.
He gives
us the choice to forgive and does not force us. But he does command
us to forgive. It is almost like the forbidden fruit in the garden of
Eden. They had the choice to obey or disobey, God allowed them free
will. We have the free will to forgive or condemn.
Abut
remember, we have the Spirit of God inside of us leading us to obey
the Christ, to follow him and to forgive others.
My
experience has taught me that forgiveness is a Spiritual Discipline,
just like prayer, bible study, devotional reading, and gathering in
community on Sunday mornings. Spiritual disciplines are spiritual
exercises that help keep our spirits healthy and in communion with
God. We are literally taking the time to acknowledge the presence of
God in our lives and our dependence on them.
And my
experience teaches me that forgiveness is something that we practice,
something we take time to diligently focus on.
And I do
that because when I refuse to forgive someone, I just don’t feel
connected to God anymore. It is like the heavens are dried up to me.
When I
pray about it in that situation, the Spirit always shows me whom I
resent and leads me to forgive.
And
forgiveness goes beyond releasing revenge from someone who has harmed
you. It goes to the point where we provide God’s mercy to someone
else. We are salt and light, called to be peacemakers in a world full
of conflict.
And
since forgiveness, restoration and healing have come to us, we see
the possibility of what Christ’s forgiveness can do for others. So,
we forgive them because we have that power.
Look at
Jesus. There was a woman caught in adultery. He forgave her. There
was a crooked tax collector named Zaccheaus, he forgave him and the
man was restored to God and to the community. As I mentioned, he was
criticized for hanging out with what they called sinners. He was
called a friend of sinners. He loved them, forgave them and didn’t
judge them. His willingness to associate with them and actually enjoy
their company showed them that God loves them. It healed them.
They
early church picked up Jesus’ tradition of love and forgiveness and
welcomed people like us, the hated Gentiles ,into God’s family even
though the Old Testament strictly forbade our association with them.
Forgiveness
breaks down the barriers that separate us and I believe, frees up the
power of the Holy Spirit to transform people into light bearers for
Christ.
Unforgiveness
gets in the way of love. He tells us in today’s text, “Above all,
clothe yourselves with love.” Love as a priority in our lives
brings more harmony with others especially when, as we started out
with in the passage, we make allowances for the fact that others are
as imperfect as us we are and we want people to forgive us and make
allowances for us.
Maybe
there is a formula here in the end of the passage that will help us
focus on the positive instead of seeing the negative in someone else.
He says,
Be thankful. Discipline your energy to be positive because God is
there and God is with us.
We are
the beloved of God, so let us enjoy that power of God’s peace in
our hearts as we fulfill Christ’s destiny through us.