Text: 1 Peter 3:13-18
Focus: Suffering
Function: to help us find peace in the midst of trials
13Now who will harm you if you are eager to do what is good? 14But even if you do suffer for doing what is right, you are blessed. Do not fear what they fear, and do not be intimidated, 15but in your hearts sanctify Christ as Lord. Always be ready to make your defense to anyone who demands from you an accounting for the hope that is in you, 16yet do it with gentleness and respect. Maintain a good conscience so that, when you are maligned, those who abuse you for your good conduct in Christ may be put to shame. 17For it is better to suffer for doing good, if suffering should be God’s will, than to suffer for doing evil. 18For Christ also suffered for sins once for all, the just for the unjust, in order to bring you to God. He was put to death in the flesh but made alive in the spirit,
Good Morning. Let me remind you that you are the beloved children of the living God. Your name is carved in their hands and God will never forget you.
My title for this message is “About Suffering.” I am trying to understand a theology of suffering as we face the trials in this life.
I feel inadequate to preach the subject because I know that many of you are suffering and you have placed your faith in God and I can learn from you.
Now, I was raised in the Missionary Church and true to our name, we made it our mission to convert others to the way we understood the faith.
And unfortunately, we were told that the eternal destiny of those we didn’t reach was going to be laid on our account if we didn’t do everything possible to convert them.
I don’t believe that anymore. I believe that God will restore everyone to their love eventually because God describes God’s own self as Love.
But I don’t want to undermine the missionary call either. Most of the books that make up the New Testament were written by a missionary, Paul.
It was God’s calling on him and without that missionary call, God’s call to love everyone through Christ would have died out in the first century. We owe a lot to missionaries and God still uses them today.
Peter was not a missionary, but he writes in this passage that we are to be bold and fearless, and always be ready to share the hope that we have in Christ.
And he ends that phrase with the Kairos method: “With gentleness and respect.”
Peter is saying that while sharing the love of Jesus, we do not judge or disrespect the person with whom we are sharing.
And he tells us to do it mainly with our ethical and moral lifestyle.
It happens as we value the other person. Remember, Christ is in everyone at some level or another and we have the power of the Spirit of Christ to bring out that love in others by showing that love ourselves.
That means we have to love and forgive. Forgiveness takes faith.
It takes faith because we have oftentimes been made to suffer when we were innocent and didn’t it.
And Peter points us to Jesus who suffered and died in order to redeem us. Jesus died on the cross to forgive the sins of everyone, even those who are unjust.
Some believe that God is a God of wrath. I do not. I believe that God is a God of restoration, not revenge.
God takes our sins and unjust actions, forgives them, and gives us another chance to do the right thing.
Sometimes while doing the right thing, we suffer.
Christ suffered also. Christ suffered specifically so that we can know that he can feel our pain and he understands the terror of our suffering.
He shares it with us and lightens the burden because we know that he understands our pain.
So Peter tells the audience in the letter that we should not fear what they fear. Instead, we should rest in God, even if serving God leads us to suffer.
Peter speaks of the Other. The “They” who are those who do not yet rely on the loving power of the Spirit in their lives through Christ .
We get to show it to them.
He doesn’t tell us what they are afraid of.
I surmise that given the prevailing culture of Greek Mythology at the time this was written, the fear is the wrath of God in hell.
But we trust the fact that Jesus forgave us and we have the power of the Spirit to live a different life, one that is born from above with the power of love prevailing our intents and purposes.
We also fear pain. And when I think of suffering, I think of pain.
And in the midst of suffering I believe we can take comfort in the fact that Christ has given us the power of the Spirit to help endure.
When we suffer we can remember that Christ is with us and will never leave us.
And again, we live by faith.
The passage refers us to Jesus when we are suffering. But when I think of suffering and the pain caused by it and my need to have comfort in my suffering, I think of a Mother’s love who knows how to kiss away the pain.
Just the knowledge of her love in the midst of suffering. It is a love that doesn’t quit.
The crucifixion story came up in my devotions this week and I noticed that contingent of women who stood by Jesus when all the apostles abandoned him at the cross.
Mary, the mother of Jesus, was given a prophecy before she miraculously conceived that her heart would be broken but through the Christ, the world would have hope again.
She suffered for God when she endured her son’s murder.
I am beginning to understand the unconditional nature of God’s love for us as I understand the unconditional love of a mother for her children.
Mary suffered with Jesus.
And her suffering is part of God’s salvation for us.
Genesis 1 says that we are created in the image of God. Male and female are both the image of God.
Mary’s love for her son was divine and is part of God’s love for us.
God’s love is both Fatherly and Motherly.
One of the names for God in the Old Testament is El Shaddai. It means “The many breasted one.”
And it refers to God as the nurturer.
Motherhood is divine and although we are not all mothers, we all had one and we can rejoice in the way that God designed to show us love through our mothers.